It’s helpful to talk at your wedding ceremony, particularly in the statement of support about why this particular community will be helpful to you as you enter marriage. For instance

• they’ve always supported you and they’ve always been honest and helpful.
• they have good marriages
• they know and respect one another and will form a good community around you.

Tip: Let them know that they’re special to you and that you’re so grateful that you can rely on their honesty and support.